{"id":97,"date":"2017-02-19T21:32:55","date_gmt":"2017-02-20T03:32:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/?p=97"},"modified":"2017-02-19T21:32:55","modified_gmt":"2017-02-20T03:32:55","slug":"finding-the-win-win","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/2017\/02\/19\/finding-the-win-win\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding the Win Win"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"98\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/2017\/02\/19\/finding-the-win-win\/hands-1923185_1280\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?fit=1280%2C960\" data-orig-size=\"1280,960\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"hands-1923185_1280\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?fit=1024%2C768\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-98\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?resize=300%2C225\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?resize=300%2C225 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?resize=768%2C576 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?resize=1024%2C768 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?w=1280 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>One of the things I&#8217;ve been learning has been how much better our lives would be if we could all just learn the skill of finding the &#8220;win win&#8221; for all parties involved. \u00a0Whether it be in our marriages, manager\/employee relationships, policy debates, friendships, etc., I would venture a guess that this approach produces results and outcomes that are so much better than those of &#8220;win for me at any cost,&#8221; &#8220;protect the ideology or bust,&#8221; and &#8220;dogma \/ tradition shall not be questioned.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Yet, what makes this so difficult? \u00a0I&#8217;m mulling this one over and would welcome your thoughts, esp. as the LIGHT! is looking for the best ways to bridge the gaps in the multi-faceted issue of inequality in our country.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Let the comments begin!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the things I&#8217;ve been learning has been how much better our lives would be if we could all just learn the skill of finding the &#8220;win win&#8221; for all parties involved. \u00a0Whether it be in our marriages, manager\/employee relationships, policy debates, friendships, etc., I would venture a guess that this approach produces results [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":98,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-uncategorized","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8kHU7-1z","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thelight.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/hands-1923185_1280.png?fit=1280%2C960","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":99,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97\/revisions\/99"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}