{"id":1701,"date":"2022-01-21T12:23:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-21T18:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/?p=1701"},"modified":"2022-01-23T00:28:25","modified_gmt":"2022-01-23T06:28:25","slug":"technology-cannot-replace-presence-why-the-church-will-always-gather-desiring-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thelight.com\/index.php\/2022\/01\/21\/technology-cannot-replace-presence-why-the-church-will-always-gather-desiring-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Technology Cannot Replace Presence: Why the Church Will Always Gather | Desiring God"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"cs-blog-content\">\n<p>While we have always been advocates of technology and of meeting remotely, this article is good in reminding us that we also need a physical presence also. &nbsp;Looking forward to post-COVID &#8220;normal&#8221; and the limited face-to-face gatherings we can yet do in light of Omicron!<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>Here I sit, gentle reader, on one side of a screen in Sydney, Australia, with you (very likely) looking at another screen in some other part of the world \u2014 and I am hoping that something remarkable will happen. I am praying that, though separated by geography and time, we will nevertheless meet together for the next few minutes through words on the screen.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a miracle when you think about it.<\/p>\n<p>If I write this piece well, you will \u201chear\u201d my thoughts and my voice, even though, in fact, you may be hearing nothing but the soft whir of the fan in your laptop. Whether it happens asynchronously (in a book or in an article like this one) or synchronously (in a Zoom meeting or on a phone call), we find ourselves able to connect, communicate, and relate to one another without physically being in each other\u2019s presence.<\/p>\n<h2>Remote, Partial Joy<\/h2>\n<p>Humans have been connecting like this since the invention of smoke signals. God has given us this remarkable capacity to project our minds and hearts and personalities to other places, and even other times, through dispatching representations of ourselves in words or images.<\/p>\n<p>The New Testament authors, of course, made good use of this blessing. They saw their letters as an important vehicle for bringing their teaching, encouragement, and admonition to the people they loved and longed for from afar.<\/p>\n<p>The little epistles of 2 and 3 John are a fascinating case study. In both letters, John rejoices to discover that his people are \u201cwalking in the truth\u201d (2 John 4; 3 John 3), and encourages and exhorts them to keep doing so. In both cases, however, he concludes by saying that although he has more to say, he\u2019d much prefer to do it in person:<\/p>\n<p>Though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead I hope to come to you and talk face to face, so that our joy may be complete. (2 John 12; see also 3 John 13\u201314)<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s real joy in hearing that someone is persevering in the faith, and a joy also in writing to encourage them. But it\u2019s a <i>partial<\/i> joy \u2014 a joy that anticipates its fulfillment when we are face to face.<\/p>\n<h2>Technology: Relational Blessing or Curse?<\/h2>\n<p>The superiority of physical presence is so obvious that it seems strange even to argue for it. Who would be so perverse as to prefer a text message from our beloved to having dinner with her at our favorite restaurant? Or who would choose a phone call with our mother over the joy of a warm embrace and a leisurely conversation?<\/p>\n<p>But we are strange and perverse creatures, with a long track record of choosing lesser joys over greater ones. As a result, we not only deny ourselves those greater possibilities, but in favoring lesser realities, we end up distorting and spoiling them.<\/p>\n<p>As many others have pointed out, this dynamic seems to be happening in our cultural moment with respect to the virtual world of the Internet and social media. There is a disturbing trend to underplay the joy of physical presence, and to overplay the benefits of virtuality. We find ourselves so immersed in the captivating, constantly morphing, fast-paced stream of the virtual, that we have started to lose our taste for the solid ground of physical relationship. But like so many of God\u2019s gifts, the blessings of virtuality, when misused or overused, become a burden and a curse.<\/p>\n<p>It is not my task in this short piece to explore why or how this has happened, but I will briefly mention one important theological trajectory that relates to the importance of our physical church gatherings.<\/p>\n<h2>Isolation of Self<\/h2>\n<p>As Carl Trueman (among others) has recently documented, one of the strange aspects of our modern Western culture is the <i>psychologizing of our selves and identities<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>The steady, inexorable rejection of God as Creator and Lord in Western society has eventually thrown us back on ourselves and our inner lives as the source of morality, identity, and the self. It is hardly surprising, in a culture where we define ourselves by expressing our feelings and thoughts, that we should find virtual connections so attractive.<\/p>\n<p>Our alienation from God and his created order has become a kind of rebellion against the bodily, physical nature of our created selves. And this rebellion leads to dysfunction, because our bodily nature is integral to who we are as God\u2019s creatures. We are made to relate not only to God, creature-to-Creator, but also to one another, creature-to-creature. Our bodily existence is ordered for this purpose. As D.B. Knox puts it:<\/p>\n<p>The body is marvellously contrived to accomplish its ends in relationship, with all the pleasure, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual that relationship brings. The eye, the face, the language structure of our brains, are designed to express our inner being to one another. (<i>The Everlasting God<\/i>, 52)<\/p>\n<p>This relates particularly to the redeemed relationships that God brings into being when he re-creates us in Christ. We are restored not just to right relationship with God, but also to right relationship with one another. Jews and Gentiles can now break bread together, greet each other with a holy kiss, even marry one another \u2014 all unthinkable impossibilities before Christ broke the wall of hostility that divided us (Ephesians 2:14).<\/p>\n<h2>Church Is a Gathered People<\/h2>\n<p>This gospel reconciliation is why the church \u2014 the gathered assembly of God\u2019s people \u2014 is such a dominant feature of the new life we have together in Christ. In Christ, the Holy Spirit draws us together: to learn together from the word (Acts 2:42), to eat and drink together in Christ\u2019s memory (1 Corinthians 11:23\u201326), to raise our voices together in prayer and song (Ephesians 5:18\u201319), and to encourage one another with loving prophetic words of exhortation, comfort, and admonition (1 Corinthians 14:1\u20133). All of these are creaturely activities, requiring creaturely presence with one another to fulfill their purposes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve often wondered if this thought lies behind the command of Hebrews 10:24, to not forsake meeting together. In much of his letter, the author of Hebrews emphasizes that the fulfillment of God\u2019s plans in Christ involves a movement from the old covenant (with its physical, earthly temple and priesthood) to the new covenant of Christ\u2019s eternal, spiritual redemption, through which we now have access to the very presence of God (Hebrews 9:14; 10:19\u201322; 12:18\u201324).<\/p>\n<p>Was the author of Hebrews concerned that the obsolescence of the physical temple and priesthood might lead his readers to no longer see the need for a physical gathering with one another?<\/p>\n<p>We should not speculate too far, but it\u2019s certainly worth noting the form of his exhortation. After urging them to draw near to the heavenly holy of holies with full assurance of faith, he then says,<\/p>\n<p>Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging [or exhorting] one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. (Hebrews 10:24\u201325)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEncouraging one another\u201d is the counterpoint to \u201cneglecting to meet together.\u201d <i>It\u2019s an essential activity that not meeting together prevents us from doing.<\/i> And encouraging each other is so because it is the means by which we stir one another up to love and good works as we wait for Christ\u2019s return.<\/p>\n<p>Given the weakness and sinfulness still present in our bodies, including the desires of the flesh that assail us, we need to gather regularly with other bodies \u2014 so that we can teach and encourage and spur each other on with our whole selves. The various activities we do with our bodies when we gather in fellowship are oriented to this purpose. They are done in the worship of Christ, and to the glory of God, but they are also very much done with and for each other \u2014 especially in building each other up in love and good deeds.<\/p>\n<h4>Physical or Virtual?<\/h4>\n<p>This vital aspect of gathering together is much diminished, or in some cases ruled out altogether, by neglecting a physical gathering in favor of virtual ones.<\/p>\n<p>For example, the value and experience of sitting side by side, listening to a preacher, is qualitatively different from reading a printed sermon or watching one on YouTube \u2014 not only because we pick up different aspects (in the voice and gesture and physical presence of the speaker), but because we are in a different <i>place and posture as listeners<\/i>. We are sitting with each other under God\u2019s word, listening together to the teaching and encouragement that his word brings us. Your presence next to me is part of my listening.<\/p>\n<p>Likewise, when we sing, we sing not only to God for his glory and praise, but to one another for mutual encouragement and teaching (Ephesians 5:21\u201322; Colossians 3:15\u201316). We can sing joyfully to Christ anywhere, but only in the gathering can we sing to one another, making melody in our hearts to the Lord as we do so.<\/p>\n<p>The same is true when we talk together and encourage one another around the word. When we are physically together, we not only enjoy a richer engagement with each other, but we have more opportunities to see and hear what\u2019s going on with the people around us. We can sense when someone is troubled or joyful or heartbroken or disengaged or lonely or just new to our gathering and hoping to meet someone. We can proactively love each other, and speak the words that spur one another on to love and good deeds.<\/p>\n<h2>Joy of Gathering Again<\/h2>\n<p>Can these various goals be accomplished via email or a Facebook post or an article like this one? To some limited extent, yes \u2014 and what a blessing that is! But to allow the blessings and possibilities of the virtual to divert us from the joys and benefits of real, bodily fellowship would be a strange bargain indeed.<\/p>\n<p>This has been the reality for us here in Sydney over the past eighteen months. We\u2019ve had many months of lockdowns and other restrictions that have prevented us from gathering physically as churches. For about half of all the Sundays since March 2020, we\u2019ve been stuck at home, trying to encourage one another as God\u2019s people through virtual connections of various kinds. We have certainly been very thankful for these mercies (even if they have sometimes felt like small mercies).<\/p>\n<p>But the joy we are now experiencing is the joy of real, face-to-face fellowship. I pray that we, and you, will continue to treasure that physical presence with each other, and never be distracted or diverted from it by the good but lesser benefits of the virtual.<\/p>\n<p>This content was originally published <a href=\"https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/articles\/technology-cannot-replace-presence\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While we have always been advocates of technology and of meeting remotely, this article is good in reminding us that we also need a physical presence also. &nbsp;Looking forward to post-COVID &#8220;normal&#8221; and the limited face-to-face gatherings we can yet do in light of Omicron! 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